Use the good stuff, don't wait for a special occasion. Living is a special occasion.

Believe in yourself, whatever you want to do you CAN do. You're all that you need.

If you didn't have a great childhood think of something that was good. Leave the bad in the past and make it nothing more than a vague memory. Focus on the good.

It IS true, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. Listen to yourself. Change it till it feels right.

Do what makes YOU happy and that you enjoy, don't worry about what others think or if they think you are good enough...Be you.

Don't fight in front of people, heck try not to fight ever, but if you must do it in private...in public is trashy and tacky. Be classy.